Writing a college recommendation letter can be one of the most meaningful things you get to do as a teacher. But it can also be daunting.
In this article, we’ll break down how to write a powerful letter for students, efficiently and effectively. We’ll address the dreaded (and common) “I don’t really remember this kid” conundrum. And we’ll even talk about how you can – and arguably sometimes should – say no to writing a letter, and how to do it without causing excess hurt feelings.
Writing a strong letter of recommendation can be done quickly and well.
A great letter of recommendation only needs to check a few boxes. Though each is important, they shouldn’t take up too much space (or too much time!):
That’s it.
So even for that 1-in-a-million, fabulous student you want to really, really champion, your letter doesn’t have to be long to do its job of showing off how great they are.
In fact, a long letter can dilute its power. Colleges are looking for “spiky” students that have a few key strengths that will contribute to the diversity of their well-rounded student population.
And never forget the overworked admission officer, glancing over these letters for the gist of what matters. (That’s how they do it, realistically.) Pack a strong punch, not a long one.
At Prompt, we don’t believe in the agony of the blank page. That’s all the more true here where you’re doing a favor. In fact, this is a favor that you want to be able to give generously to all the students who you can support in this way. You can’t do that if each letter takes hours to write.
There’s a better way!
Start with a good old-fashioned brainstorm. Write down all the examples of the student’s work that come to mind, and also brainstorm all the positive attributes you’d ascribe to them — you can then ask yourself to give an example that shows that attribute later.
Once you have this list, you’ll easily be able to mold it into a strong letter. Remember, that’s just:
Simple, but effective.
For some teachers, remembering the student is the biggest challenge in writing good recommendations. It’s okay to ask your student to provide a recommendation outline.
Simply ask the student to write three or so of their strongest qualities with an example or two illustrating each. Emphasize that this should not take too much of their time — a rough outline is fine. You can then use this to trigger your own memory and to come up with better content faster than you might have done otherwise.
If you need a template, here’s one that works well:
It’s not paint-by-numbers, of course, but it isn’t rocket science either! We hope this helps keep things efficient and powerful.
Let’s face it. It’s easy to be vague, and hard to be concrete and specific. It is very, very natural for your first draft to have some vague descriptors. Tell-tale words and phrases include “always” and “good at.”
After you’ve written a draft, read it over for vagueness, circling places that look a little limp. Then come back for a second pass, in which you strive to come up with better examples of what you’re trying to describe. Generally, we find that time does a lot of work, and you can think of better examples easily, having let your subconscious do some of the heavy lifting.
This is a great method for writing a powerful letter without wasting too much time. Read it one last time to catch any lingering instances of vagueness, then (once you’ve proofread, obviously) call it a day!
These things are tricky. In the real world, it’s not always possible to say no to a student you don’t want to endorse. For example, students can be desperate, perhaps up against a deadline, or, often, you might be the student’s only real option. In those cases, of course, the most ethical thing to do is to do your best for the student, following the guidance in the rest of this article — even if the letter is more generic or unenthusiastic than you’d ideally want.
But there are two reasons why saying no to a student is sometimes best:
Saying no can be hard, but it’s sometimes right. Here’s how to do it in a way that doesn’t cause undue hurt:
As we hope this shows, there are some occasions where it is doable to say no in a way that’s respectful, helpful, and shouldn’t cause undue hurt feelings. (In fact, it could well be an overall positive interaction.)
So follow our quick 6 steps to brainstorm and write a great letter of recommendation for your students applying to undergraduate college admissions. Read more of our articles below to stay in-the-know on college admissions.